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Dimanche, le 23 mars 2008
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Ayoye!
Dans la plupart des universités, on continue d'enseigner aux débutants la doctrine du syllogisme qui, en plus d'être inutile et compliquée, fait obstacle à la bonne compréhension de la logique. Si vous voulez devenir logicien, il y a un conseil sur lequel je ne saurais trop insister et qui est le suivant : n'apprenez PAS la logique formelle classique. Celle-ci constituait, à l'époque d'Aristote, un effort louable, mais c'était aussi le cas de l'astronomie ptolémaïque : enseigner, de nos jours, l'une ou l'autre, c'est faire preuve d'un passéisme ridicule.
Banditisme
Americans have the God given right to oppose tyranny
Mamma Mia!
Le fédéral vient de verser 230 562$ pour l’organise
fondé en 1997
Sa mission :
Programmes continus:
1- Maintenir et développer des activités de support et de répit pour les jeunes mères qui sont en démarches professionnelles, scolaires ou autres (Formation projet de vie, gardiennage, etc.)
2- Activités d'informations ou d'échanges sur des sujets choisis (Prévention à la violence, renforcement des habilités parentales, l'alimentation, info-droit, clinique impôt, activités de groupe diverses de loisirs et culturelles
3- Actions collectives pour favoriser la vie citoyenne et un esprit collectif et solidaire (Solidaire, solidaire. C'est vite dit ça. Une peut sexiste comme solidarité non?)
4- Favoriser la prise en charge de la vie démocratique de l'organisme par les jeunes mères en étant membres du CA, des différents comités tant communautaires que résidentiels, en participant aux assemblées etc.
5- Intégration des locataiers (présentes, anciennes ou nouvelle) à la vie démocratique (ex: comité de vie interne) et communautaire (Participation à l'entretien intérieur et extérieur de l'immeuble de l'organisme (parenthèse fermée) (Big fucking deal)
« depuis 2004, une soixantaine de mères et familles ont passé par l’organisme…. Il est inacceptable bla bla la violence bla bla »
Sur la déclaration de Revenu Cdn 2007 :
D3 En moyenne, combien d'employés à temps partiel et d'employés engagés pour une partie de l'année l'organisme de bienfaisance a-t-il eus à son service au cours de l'exercice? 31 ß-
Je ne comprend pas comment font-elles pour s’acheter une bâtisse :
Immobilisations (coût d'acquisition ou juste valeur marchande) 2 249 415 $
Sur les 287 335$ de subventions en 2007 (fed, prov, muni) 113 865$ servent à payer les intérêts et les frais bancaires.
Et naturellement on se serre les coudes pour manifester avec le féminisme :
(On serre aussi les couilles non? Après tout est-ce que le féminisme ne se résume pas à serrer des couilles et quand elles peuvent les arracher elles ne se gênent pas?)Pour les modèles masculins au sein de « leur nouvelle vie » chercher les fantômes : http://www.meresetmonde.qc.ca/visite/photos.aspx
Autre opportunité.. gratos : Les logements de Mères et monde sont un tremplin, les jeunes mères peuvent y habiter pendant cinq années ou jusqu'à l'âge de 30 ans.
Pas besoin de père ces enfants !
Raw Courage-What Fathers Rights Activists in the UK Are having to Endure at the hands of the Police on behalf of Fathers and their childrenTo all your Fathers and Parents and falsely accused men out there in Canada suffering under the weight of Family and Criminal Law excesses who sometimes wonder what Fathers and Men's Rights Activists are doing in Canada. This message below from one of the three Fathers 4 Justice people arrested in England yesterday tells you all what could and probably will happen sooner or later in Canada to your own representatives. The system which victimizes and destroys so many of you is not going to tolerate opposition and it will eventually react and take action against those who "go the extra mile" on your behalf. As Ray Berry and his brave colleagues have shown the police don't even have to have valid reason to intervene they just need a 'suspicion'.And they can make that 'suspicion' up and let it take many forms too. As Berry says if the police are allowed to get away with these things "they can get away with anything".
The F4J people in the UK were the first people to make this writer and activist realize there was a Fathers Rights opposition in the world-way back in 2001. When they climbed on Buckingham Palace I became fully alerted and made the contacts in Canada which started my own campaign to join with others to expose the fraud of 'family law'. These brave, long suffering men and women in the UK are putting up with awful difficulties. The message also shows clearly the lengths the authorities will go to in order to stifle legitimate protest. I think more importantly the message also shows how important it is that you strongly support your local and national Fathers, Mens, Family and Children's Rights Activists, groups and organizations in their struggle to expose the truth of "the horror" in Canada. Now more than ever they need that support. I believe you all need to make yourselves heard now and maybe its time you allow yourselves to be seen too.
Stand firm. Support your FRA's and organizations. Get involved. Stand behind the people who put themselves 'on the line' for you. Support the fight against the absolute outrage and criminality of "family law" and the parallel scourges of anti father and anti male discriminatory criminal and administrative law. Here is the message from British activist Ray Berry to the Fathers 4 Justice activists and supporters in Britain.
25 Years of Living Hell because of Canada's morally corrupt family court system
Former Parliamentarian Roger Galloway speaks out
Never before seen footage!
THE ROUGH GUIDE TO SINGLE MOMS
This is the best piece I have ever read on Single Moms! In the past, I have heard or read about bits here and there. Until today never have I ever read so much important information in one single post on Single Moms. Zen King from the Don't Get Married wrote one the best master pieces of all time. Now you my readers are going to now get to read it. Make sure to pass along this piece to all the Single Males you know!
Author: Zen King
I thought I would set down a “rough guide” for men thinking about starting a relationship with a single mom and what some of the ramifications are of dating and entering into a deeper relationship with a single mom could be. Of course this guide does not apply to all women or all men but it will list the main problems I have observed through over the years.
Contrary to popular media-myth I have yet to meet a single mom who was career driven, carefree, balanced, and happy; doing it all type gal as often portrayed in most media outlets. The reality I have seen over the years is usually a stressed out, overworked, debt stricken woman who really had no idea children cost so much in time, effort and money. Their careers are on hold as they need to balance their child with sickness, school activities etc… versus moving up whatever career ladder they are on. Most single moms are raising their children with help of an extended family member (usually their mom), a bevy of friends and other single moms they find in support groups. It is usually not a pretty picture at all.
Somewhere along the way, usually quite quickly they come up with the idea that they need a “partner” to help them in their new enterprise of having a child and the sooner they can get one the better. Realizing they have a bit of a disadvantage with having a child and being in the dating scene they resort to several well known strategies to get a partner.
One of the first strategies is to engage men who do not have children of their own. This allows the woman to portray the semblance of having and raising a kid is easy and there will always be a balance between their relationship with their partner and their child. Sometimes they will portray themselves as helpless victims, victimized by an evil and absent father – they need saving and you can save them. Another popular scheme is to make themselves look accomplished and together by extending their debt to ridiculous levels to portray they are all right and don’t really need a partner. There are quite a few more, but like I said, this is a rough guide.
One of the strategies is to involve the child with the prospective “partner” almost right away and foster a relationship between the man and her child. This allows a lot of leverage on several levels as time goes by. It allows for huge amount of guilt and shame if the man wants to break off the relationship, allows a bonding to take place that is hard to shuck off and other factors... You will hear phrases such as “any man who loves me must love my children!” etc…All designed to appeal to a man’s sense of chivalry and protection. This hopefully facilitates a sense of belonging together and in the end marriage.
Most single men are unaware of what is going on when they start to date a single mom. It seems that the child is around, but it is pleasant, there is a clear distinction between adult and child time etc… it seems actually for most men, not a bad time at all. This allows the single mom to get the man closer and farther into the relationship.
What is really going on is a shit-load of help from the single mom’s friends and other helpers. Tons of babysitting services, tips on dating, comparing notes and plans etc… No matter what you see as a man there is something else going on – do not forget that. Her plan is to eventually get a partner one way or another. You are the prize and she is going to earn it.
One trait that seems to come to the forefront with most men who are dating single moms is just how wonderful a woman they really are. Most men cannot for the life of them figure out why another man would abandon a woman like her. It has been stated hat single moms are more caring, compassionate, great lovers, excellent cooks, laugh at all your jokes etc…they seem to be ideal mates.
What is actually going on is well planned and orchestrated strategies to get a man into a relationship. I don’t know how many men have loudly complained that after marriage they were suddenly now doing most of the cooking, cleaning, and repairing around the house with zero time like they had before. I don’t know how many have said it was like night and day after they moved in. The kind compassionate woman the men met had somehow now been replaced by a truly different woman; it was like another personality type than the one they married. In short a single mom knows she has to work harder to get a man and she will work harder, but for many the act cannot last that long and the real woman reveals herself. Usually his occurs just after marriage.
A lot of men though go for it and involve themselves in marriage with a single mom and do not really know some of the problems they will encounter. Here is a short list of several common problems that begin to creep up:
1. Being a “partner” means you get to pay for half- if not more. I have noticed after marriage a single mom works at dizzying speed to make sure her man’s name is on all of the bills. She also will usually demand money also for a huge amount of her child’s expenses. It is also expressed as a part of “loving her and showing it”. I have seen men putting money away for college for a kid that’s not his. Buying ridiculous amounts of brand name clothes, expensive homes etc… all in an effort to be in a so-called “family”.
2. The Family you just got into is by invitation only. In most traditional marriages that produce children, the man, woman and child or children make up the basic family unit. In being a step- parent you are not the basic unit. The mother and child together are the basic unit. You are invited in and can be un-invited whenever mom feels it to be so. No matter what is said or mentioned before marriage, you will never come before her child. You will always be in a family and relationship where you come second, maybe third.
3. No matter what you think… her ex is going to be there forever. In just about every case the child’s father does not seem to be in the picture during the dating and courtship stage but seems to suddenly show up after. The reality is he was always there, your partner just never mentioned it…. The father will most naturally want to have a relationship with his child and he is going to be quite involved most of the time. Just about every time you will be dragged into the endless bickering and fights they have and you will not be liked by him…it's only natural remember… also be sure to take into account the grandparents, uncles and aunts and all the family functions you will be attending with him, his child, his ex (your partner) and his side of the family. Get used to being uncomfortable.
4. Her kid will most likely not like you very much. Let’s face it you’re sleeping with their mom and most of the time the child will see you as a roadblock to his parents getting back together. Most likely the mom has made you the giver of discipline in the relationship, being the man and all…which results in the kid hating you. Or after watching the child run amok for weeks after you arrive you change juniors’ schedule to include some discipline and then you also hated even more. An amazing amount of men involved with single mothers report how the child hates them, but he can keep buying gifts to try to win their affection. Some call it the ATM effect of diminishing returns.
5. All that time you had together with your new love will end after marriage. The number one job of a single mom is simply to be a mom. She is not a party girl, hiker, camper, biker, clubber etc… Just be prepared for a frontal assault on your time and money after marriage. You will find your weekdays taken up with homework, PTA meetings, suppers at home, and early bed times. Weekends will be the time for the child’s extra-curricular activities and other activities. If a single man is wondering what happens ask any father of children how their time is spent, it will not be on hobbies. You will hear endlessly the phrase “we are a family now and this is what a family does” of course your idea on family will differ…but it is her family and she will make the choices.
6. You will wonder what happened to all your money. Most men involved with a single mom report that their money seems to dry up. Children are expensive- expensive like most men have no idea. Between school supplies, clothing, vast amounts of food, babysitters if you ever want to go out, medications, fees, sports, supplies, toys and such… well, there will be little left.
As a footnote there is also another ploy by some single moms that men also forget about. The child’s father is paying for a lot of these things. Quite a few men have reported that their wife or girlfriend was getting them to pay for such things as sport fees, equipment, university funds, school supplies and such but at the same time getting the child’s father to pay for these things also. Double billing, also called fraud, is quite common but it does allow the single mom to have almost zero expenses for her child as two men are now paying for junior….
Another ploy that is quite horrific was a man whose wife owned a home and he moved in with her and her child. Although he fixed it up, paid half the mortgage and expenses- she had willed the home to her children. When confronted she said since she would be dead she did not care if he had a home or not, her child came first. So be careful with matters of money. Very careful.
7. You will never really be accepted. I have observed time and time again the heartbreak of a step parent as the child gets older. After putting them through school, providing a place to live, food, getting the child all kinds of gifts and honestly really caring about the child and such I keep hearing this one story over and over. The time comes for a grad or a wedding, the step parent thinks he might be lauded for his sacrifices but instead is shunted to a back seat or not invited as the child invites mom and dad to the party…and thanks them for all their love and work. Usually there is not even an acknowledgement of effort.
8. You will now be part of the single moms’ network. Be prepared to help out all her buddies as they helped her out. Endless weekends and nights of babysitting the other single moms kids so that they too may date and get a man. You will also discover why 75% of all people in jail come from single mother households. Try not to have any expensive items around…
9. Now that the single mom is now married she will need to impress her single mom friends with her new found happiness. Her happiness will usually include a new home in a good neighborhood, new clothing, new items for the home, new car etc… there is an unwritten law it seems among a lot of single moms that they compete ruthlessly with their friends. If she does get married she needs to show them her new found prestige. Be prepared for huge new expenses.
10. You will have no time for errors. A lot of single men get involved with the single mom and her kids when the child is a bit older. Being inexperienced with children becomes a huge burden as the single man has no time to learn parenting skills…and mistakes are not readily forgiven nor forgotten when a kid is 4 compared to 14.
11. You may think it ends, but it never does. I know many men whose single mom wife promised them a completely different life after junior turned 18 or so. At the beginning of the relationship it looked like just a few years and then total privacy and freedom. Then years later they found out that junior is going to go to university for 6 years after taking a gap year off and not worry about a job as he will live at home. After that the story usually is that the child gets married and has kids and needs a ton of babysitting services. The dream of trips abroad, moving to a nicer place etc… evaporates for most men. They just wind up being early grandparents. The other option that happens a lot is the girls have children early and stay at home. Not only is the man taking care of his wife’s child he also has to care for her grandchild now!
12. You will have nothing to show for it. In the end when most men have their own children the work and effort is well worth it. The men did their best and raised a family, continued a line, get grandchildren…etc… As a step-parent you have contributed as much but you have nothing. Nobody carries on your name and most men realize they are not even ever thanked for their sacrifice.
13. The legalities can kill you. There have been numerous cases where a man has divorced or left a single mom and then found himself liable financially for her child. Although not the father he will be responsible for child payments, extra fees and most certainly university far after they are 18….check the laws out, it’s a raw deal. Couple that with some alimony and you get the whole effect of being a divorced and homeless dad with not one child of your own….
In the end women have asked for their freedom to make their own choices now for decades. I would advise all single men to let single moms make their choice of having a child by themselves and then live with it. Don’t involve yourself with these women under any circumstances. It can be in many ways, the death of a man.
Well it’s a rough guide and you were warned….
Masculinist loses defamation suit against "feminist radicals"
JS
Le discours féministe dit que l'écart entre le taux de suicide des hommes et des femmes est le même depuis toujours...
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Ce graphique nous permet aussi de constater que la distance entre les taux de suicide des hommes et des femmes s’accroît d’année en année. Il n’y a pas de doute, les suicides représentent un problème grave dans notre société. http://www.ampq.org/ipages/02.htm
En passant, je n'ai jamais trouvé une seule statistique/etude honnete provenant de cette idéologie (i.e.. féministe). JAMAIS! J'ai lu des centaines de recherches, rapports, etc, et JAMAIS nous retrouvons la réalité dans sa globalité... TOUJOURS une réalité partielle, tronquée...
Je suis vraiment tanné de lire/entendre cette désinformation !
En tout cas, étant donné que l'écart du taux de suicide entre les hommes et les femmes a augmenté drastiquement depuis les années 70...
Faudrait peut-être regarder POURQUOI les hommes se suicident BEAUCOUP plus qu'avant...
Qu'est-ce qui a changé depuis les années 70 ET CE, SURTOUT POUR LES HOMMES ?
HYPOTHÈSE:
Si les hommes (surtout les hommes en situation de séparation) ne vivaient pas autant d'injustices... peut-être que...
En tout cas, le Bureau du CORONER du Québec ne fait PAS d'enquête sur ce sujet... POURQUOI ?
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Bureau du coroner du Québec
Études sur le suicide
Voici les résultats de cinq études sur le phénomène du suicide au Québec. Il s'agit des grandes lignes des présentations qui ont eu lieu lors de la 51e Assemblée annuelle des psychiatres du Canada qui s'est tenue à Montréal le 16 novembre 2001. Ces études ont été rendues publiques par le Dr. Javad Momaï et les coroners Serge Turmel, Dominique Bourget et Pierre Gagné .
-Les suicides chez les 10 à 19 ans au Québec
-Le suicide chez les médecins : La situation au Québec
-Les caractéristiques des suicides liés au jeu pathologique
-L'impact de la couverture médiatique sur le suicide
-L’impact des désastres naturels sur le suicide : mise à jour et résultats de l’étude sur la tempête de verglas au Québec
Documents spécialisés
-Les décès chez les enfants de moins de deux ans
-La mort, les rites funéraires, le deuil et l'autopsie chez les Juifs et les Musulmans
http://www.msp.gouv.qc.ca/coroner/coron ... ues#etudesSelon les études occidentales disponibles (elles sont rares), environ 50% des suicides sont des hommes en situation de séparation...
Il serait temps de regarder cet ELEPHANT ROSE de façon HONNÊTE ?
http://www.quebec-politique.com/index/viewtopic.php?f=3&t=10216&start=90
It should not be illegal to discriminate against white men
Ne soyez plus pris au dépourvu en cas d’événement imprévu
Faites-vous une loi de faire valoir vos droits à partir de 4 $ par mois
Publireportage
Lettre ouverte
L'après-rupture
Ateliers pour les liens père-enfants, Inc.
20 mars 2008VIOLENCE CONJUGALE... SUPERCHERIE FÉMINISTE DANS LE COURRIER DE LAVAL!Dans son édition du 16 mars dernier, le Courrier Laval publiait un article en page A 23 (voir fichier attaché) qui avait pour titre "LA VIOLENCE CONJUGALE... OU CHICANE DE COUPLE?" La source de ce texte provient de Fannie Roy, agente de promotion et de prévention des Maisons d'hébergement de Laval. Madame Roy affirme, sans rire, qu'une Québécoise sur cinq risque de subir de la violence conjugale. Si l'on applique ce calcul tordu à l'ensemble de la population féminine du Québec, on arrive au chiffre absurde de près de 775 000 femmes victimes de violence conjugale! Or, les plus récents chiffres officiels du Ministère de la Sécurité publique du Québec parlent plutôt de 16 709 cas allégués rapportés à la police touchant les deux sexes... Précisons qu'il s'agit d'allégations de violence et non de condamnations. Comment expliquer qu'un journal sérieux puisse ainsi publier les sornettes statistiques de Fannie Roy, sans en vérifier la fiabilité des sources?
La distinction entre «violence conjugale» et «chicane de couple» provient de Diane Prud'homme du Regroupement provincial des maisons d'hébergement et de transition pour femmes victimes de violence conjugale. Le type de distinction que tentent de faire les centres d'hébergement n'est aucunement soutenu par la recherche scientifique empirique. Ce type de distinction n'est même pas cautionné par des chercheurs féministes comme Michael P. Johnson, pour lequel la majorité des situations de violence conjugale (c'est-à-dire ce qu'il définit comme la violence situationnelle) n'impliquent pas de «pattern» de domination, alors que pour Mme Prud'homme, toute forme de violence conjugale est définie comme une forme de domination, que bien entendu seules subissent les femmes. Ce qui ouvre la porte à tous les biais sexistes et à toutes les injustices dans les formes d'interventions pratiquées par les intervenantes qui adhèrent à ces croyances erronées.Il est dommage que les centres d'hébergement du Québec adhèrent à la représentation idéologique la plus extrême et la plus irréelle de la notion de violence conjugale, qui est en rupture complète avec toute la recherche scientifique sur cette question. Ils s'exposent en conséquence à perdre toute crédibilité. Si la théorie de la violence conjugale à laquelle les dirigeantes de ces centres adhèrent est invalide, comme le démontre la recherche empirique, on va par conséquent finir par se demander si les services que fournissent ces centres sont vraiment d'une utilité démontrable quelconque. Ce genre de remise en cause commence à se faire de plus en plus fréquemment aux États-Unis et ce n'est qu'une question de temps avant que les mêmes question soient soulevées au Québec.Quant à nous, nous préférons nous en remettre, entre autres, aux recherches du très sérieux Institut de la statistique du Québec qui, en 2007, confirmait que la violence conjugale affecte tout autant les hommes que les femmes et leurs enfants.Il est dommage que certains organismes féministes grassement subventionnés...
Le subventions gouvernementales:
Regroupement provincial des maisons d'hébergement et de transition pour femmes victimes de violence conjugale
229 104$
La Maison Le Prélude
590 862$
La Maison L'Esther
578 460$
La Maison de Lina S.O.S.
257 243$
Ces trois maisons sont membres de la
Table de concertation de Laval en condition féminine
57 000$
... puissent ainsi facilement colporter dans les médias des chiffres farfelus, démagogiques, dénués de tout fondement scientifique, pour faire croire à la population qu'il y a fléau de violence conjugale au Québec... avec, en prime, les hommes toujours coupables!avec l'équipe de recherchedeAteliers pour les liens père-enfants, Inc.
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1977 - July: The Atlantic Monthly publishes “The Trilateral Connection” by former Washington Post columnist Jeremiah Novak, in which he states: “For the third time in this century, a group of American scholars, businessmen, and government officials is planning to fashion a New World Order.”